We all know that we love our kids too much and seeing them struggle like doing their assignments and projects in school, we opt to take over right away because we don’t want to see them burden. But that leads them to be so dependent to you, and it would sends the message like “I don’t trust that you can compete, so I will have to do that for you”. It really doesn’t help them in anyway and it is a very unhealthy in developing independence and confidence towards the child. Yeah it is good to give them fish but that doesn’t mean you help them by feeding them right away because they would just wait for you to do things for them, it is better to teach them how to fish so they will be able to catch fishes on their own way, and they would carry the learning when they grow up.
One disappointment that a teenager could get through is when they are slowly getting bigger or getting fat and the worst is their prom night is fast approaching. I am sure some of them don’t like to attend to it anymore because there are no dresses that fit in them. But with the generation today, even chubby teens can wear trendy dresses because many offers a plus size prom dress so no one will be left behind at home, everyone can have the opportunity to enjoy and experience what prom looks like and be glamorous as they can be because they wore a dress that’s perfectly fit in them.