Independence And Confidence For The Kids

We all know that we love our kids too much and seeing them struggle like doing their assignments and projects in school, we opt to take over right away because we don’t want to see them burden. But that leads them to be so dependent to you, and it would sends the message like “I don’t trust that you can compete, so I will have to do that for you”. It really doesn’t help them in anyway and it is a very unhealthy in developing independence and confidence towards the child. Yeah it is good to give them fish but that doesn’t mean you help them by feeding them right away because they would just wait for you to do things for them, it is better to teach them how to fish so they will be able to catch fishes on their own way, and they would carry the learning when they grow up.

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