Archive for September, 2011

Rules for a Happy Marriage

I really think I need this:

Rules for a Happy Marriage

Never both angry at the same time.
Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
Never bring up mistakes of the past.
Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing.
When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it.
It takes two to make a quarrel and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

Thought To Work

There are times that I thought of sending my application to one of the call centers here. I really missed working and I really missed taking calls from various states. I feel like I am becoming so boring and dull by not being productive, I always depending on my husband’s income, I sometimes thought I need also to contribute for our expenses. My day-to-day expenses is getting huge, I could not believe how much thousands would I spend for the whole month. I am just thankful that my husband did not complain at all, but even though I am not wasting his money out of nothing, I still can’t help to be guilty. I really feel like I am being useless. Although my husband keeps on telling me that I am not because I am the one who’s taking good care of my kids. How I wish, when the kids already grows up, there are still companies that would accept me and would eventually hire me. 

Congratulations Davao Sea Lions Swim Club!

Our team made it again yesterday, these kids really rocks!

I also want to take this opportunity to congratulate the nephew of my friend DJ for being the MVP of the year for his age. Congratulations again DJ!


Right after like how many minutes of swimming, Mj was again complaining of her tummy, the pain was on the lower right part of her stomach, I was panicked when I learned about it. Good thing a friend of mine offered to drive us to the hospital since I think I can’t drive anymore. They already called their friend who is a doctor and who could assist us about the condition of my daughter but then he recommended us for admission since the symptoms was really like of that appendicitis. We went to another hospital then since Mj’s pediatrician is there; they have the same conclusion with the other doctor, so I decided for her to be admitted. She undergone CBC and urine test again and ultrasound and they told me if the result will be positive they have to operate her immediately. I was devastated; I didn’t know what to do. 
Good thing that Mj’s stomach pain subsided after like an hour of staying at the ER yet they still have to observe her condition, so an admission was really a must. Friday morning, they have her for urine test and ultrasound; it was only in the afternoon that they informed us about the result, I am so glad that the entire test was negative. But we can’t still go out in the hospital because her tummy was still in pain when the Doctor pressed her tummy as he released it.T
This morning, my worries were gone when Mj said it doesn’t hurt her anymore when she pressed her tummy, and it was confirmed by her Doctor. We were checked out after lunch, so although Mj was not able to make it to her competition this time, what matters most is that she already recovered from her infection and that she is already okay.