Archive for March 9th, 2013

What To Do When Your Child Is Being Bullied

When Mj entered first grade, some days she would tell me that someone hits her on the head or the worst on her tummy. There was one time as I could not bear it at all, I really went to school and confronted the kid, I really shouted at him because he did it for so many times to Mj already and Mj always feel so helpless. I know I should talk to the teacher first but geez what will you do when you hear the complaint over and over again, I should take some action and interfere so the other kid will know that he can’t do that to his classmate because there are some parents who could give him a lesson.

Anyway, I read this in the magazine that listening could help the bully one in many ways. When the child started to open up to you, be mindful because they are taking a risk, when a child is opening up their activities or even disappointments in school, meaning they trust you enough.

Don’t Rationalize: Meaning, you have to let the child speak to their mind, as I said simply listening could help them opening up.

It Is Not An Option To Fight Back Or To Avoid The Bully: Because fighting back would lead to worst scenario. He or she could hurt the bully very badly that would lead him or her to death; you don’t want your kid to be responsible of the death of her or his classmate right? In the contrary, avoiding the bully could be a short solution to a long term problem.

Don’t Encourage Confronting The Bully Alone: It is best to have a 3rd party involve during confrontation so whatever happen the third party could be a witness.

Know the School Policies: Check the school rules and policies of the school when regards to bully. I am so happy that the school of Faith is really giving attention to those kids who are bully.

Make Sure That You Have The Written Report: Make the facts into details of the case and so when there’s schedule for a meeting with other parties involve, you can give the incident into details.

Have A Meeting With All Concerned Parties: It does not include only the bully and the bullied but the parents of both parties and so as the School Administrators, together, you could have a better chance to point an amicable solution.

Got this from Baby Magazine December to January 2013 edition

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Expert With The Mechanical System For Installing Water Heater

I am worried when my husband gets here, we don’t have water heater in our bathroom and I know so well he needs it very badly since he is not used not to have water heater when taking shower. Sigh, if only we live in Toronto, I might gonna get the tankless water heater services toronto, I would surely less worry when it comes to quality of the water heater and or the tank as they are known for their expertise and plumbers are very professional and are willing to help with all your concerns in regards with the water heater. But who knows I will need their service if we decided to migrate in Canada, right now I just have to wait for my husband and be together here with my kids.

On the other hand, if you don’t have plumber around you, I mean why do you have to look around while a professional plumber rate toronto who knows exactly structural lay out, electrical and duct lay out when installing water heater is available anytime you want. I know one family member could be a plumber but remember installing heater is different, the one who should install this know the mechanical flow during the installation. Remember; never trust the one who knows only plumbing but trust the person who knows the mechanical system of installing water heater.

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Swimming Again Today

Today, another friend invited us to go to their house for swimming. Their subdivision has a nice leisure pool that the kids can enjoy. It has been a while that Mj was not able to play and enjoy in the water and this time would be the best time for her since my friend is inviting her. So after her session in Kumon we will be heading immediately to my friend’s house to have some fun, long chitchat so to speak while the kids are enjoying running and swimming in the pool. This has been a long plan for both of us but it just didn’t pursue because of some glitches and circumstances that occur along the way but now I guess we will make it.

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My Sister’s Printing Business

My sister’s business partner withdraws her share just this year. She also sold her printing machine to the brother in law of my sister, my sister was devastated she was not able foreseen this withdrawal, their business is going down but even so they still continue with the business. Although they have to look for some printing business to accommodate their print outs since they don’t have printing machine yet, I was thinking to suggest a wholesale printer for them online maybe this could help them with their business. She has been in this business for so many years now, last year, one friend joined her business but she was not able to understand the flow of the business and so she withdraws. I believe my sister can still push this business through; all they need is a big amount of capital.

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