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Be Attentive To Your Child’s Skills

Every kids are unique so do not focus if he or she fail you on her academics. She or He is maybe inclined with sports so give her  a chance on that. You may your enroll your child to what she would like and not you would want her to become. Focus of her talent and make her feel that she should pursue her special talent, and whatever it is be proud because not all the kids have the same talent as your child. I am sure if you will support him or her of what he or she like, he or she would excel in that area. In this way, she will not only excel in her talent but to feel special about it.

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Bond Each One Of Them

We call these special days, for me, for my youngest daughter my full attention for her would be sometimes Monday or Wednesday and Saturday too. Monday, because we need to go to Kaakbay, Wednesday, she has Kumon and Saturday, she has both Kaakbay and Kumon. For my eldest daughter, my full attention for her is during Wednesday and Saturday and the rest of the days when I have to send her to the pool. But if Faith does not have school, we used to go to the mall and eat together in her favorite fast food chain and I also allow her to go to fun world, where she can run and play with other kids. With my eldest daughter, we are also hanging out, sometimes we watch movie together, or window shopping or have a haircut together. You see giving children their special days, they could feel that they are very special and you love them dearly.

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I Know Anak!

I could not believe how time flies so fast, you are even taller than me as the days passed by. You are grown so beautiful and very athletic, although you stopped from the sport that you first in love with, I know within you, you missed the training a lot. However we already made a decision and that is to concentrate in your studies. I know sometimes I get too irritated with the sounds of your guitar in the morning, but I want you to know that I enjoyed every strumming of your guitar I just want you to be responsible first inside the house, you can play your guitar later when you are done with the house chores. This is for your own good so you know how to be responsible in everything you do.  I know you are also tired doing your Kumon work sheets but I hope you know that I enrolled you to that center it is because I don’t want you to struggle with your Math, take it from me, even I already graduated in college, Math was never been close to me. I know that you don’t like your skin because it is dark, blame it to the training when you have to swim before under the heat of the sun but please we have the same skin color, you are even fairer than me before the training but please know that for me you are the most beautiful young lady in the whole wide world. I am proud of you Mj even though I get pissed off when you don’t listen to me, and I love you even we are fighting most often now, I don’t know why but we always clash. I am trying my best though to reach you so I could understand you, I mean I sometimes really don’t understand the new generation nowadays but for you I will try and I will never leave you no matter what. I may not say this very often but I love you so much Anak!

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Shielding My Kids

When my kids are sick, especially if Jm is sick I would isolate her by letting her sleep in the other bedroom or in the living room because I don’t want my youngest daughter to get the infection that her sister has. And on the process, every time my eldest daughter is sick, she would volunteer already to sleep alone. The same thing when other kids are sick especially if it is very contagious, as long as I can I would avoid my kids from them. And I am sure it is not discrimination, it is a normal reaction of the parents especially the mothers to protect their kids. I could not afford to see them suffer because I did not apply precautions. I would rather be mocked by this nonsense as long as I have shielded my kids from any harm.

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